When I first started dating again after being single for almost seventeen years, I wished that I could find some kind of flirting-guide or dating guide to help me deal with the dating scene.  I mentioned this to my sister who told me that she knew of such a guide as she had purchased one when she first started dating and that she would let me borrow it if I wanted to.  Because I did want to borrow the guide, I told my sister to bring it over to me the next time she stopped by my house and she told me that she would try to remember it for me.