I was really surprised when I got an email from my new friend Valarie last night. My husband and I met Valarie and her husband John on a cruise last fall. Valarie said that her and John had been very busy since they got home from the cruise. John recently got a job as a NJ sexual harassment lawyer, so they were moving from South Carolina to New Jersey. Since my husband and I live close by in Pennsylvania, Valerie wanted to make plans to visit us for a weekend. I emailed her back and told her that we couldn’t wait for them to visit.